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Would it be weird if i bought my 14yo cousin expensive jediellery for her birthday?
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2016-07-28 at 8:47 PM UTCI mean i love her in a lot of ways, and and she loves me just probably not romantically. So i'm kind of trying to woo her, but my family isn't stupid and giving her an expensive piece of jediellery might be considered inappropriate. Now my cousin isn't dumb either but i could get away with it and she might get the message, we've pretty intimate not like sex or actually kissing but more intimate than what would be considered appropriate cousin behavior, just kinda' flirty and stuff and giving her something very nice for her birthday would hopefully send the message i want to convey but i am positive my family would be opposed to us being together because well, we're cousins and she's under aged lol. But she's pretty much perfect, she's young, sweet and smart so yeah. Wut do?
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2016-07-28 at 9:24 PM UTCSure...but get cheap jedielry that looks expensive.
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2016-07-28 at 9:45 PM UTCYes, that would be weird and creepy.
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2016-07-28 at 9:47 PM UTCyea i dont think thats gonna work
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2016-07-28 at 9:48 PM UTCWell, growing up I was always given all sorts of expensive jedielry. When I was 3 my grandfather gave me 1 kt diamond white gold earrings and right now I've got a 1 kt diamond on my hand in 14k gold. I've also over the years had all sorts of expensive shit. Ironicly enough, I hardly wear jedielry and am not impressed with rocks on precious metals. I even prefer silver most the time if I do wear stuff. So honeslty, I don't feel its a big deal. I appreciate what I have for sentimental reasons but I've never felt weird about recieving jedielry from important men inmy life. I don't see the big deal- if she's a girlie girl and would like stuff like that I don't see why not to buy it for her if you can afford it
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2016-07-28 at 9:54 PM UTC
Well, growing up I was always given all sorts of expensive jedielry. When I was 3 my grandfather gave me 1 kt diamond white gold earrings and right now I've got a 1 kt diamond on my hand in 14k gold. I've also over the years had all sorts of expensive shit. Ironicly enough, I hardly wear jedielry and am not impressed with rocks on precious metals. I even prefer silver most the time if I do wear stuff. So honeslty, I don't feel its a big deal. I appreciate what I have for sentimental reasons but I've never felt weird about recieving jedielry from important men inmy life. I don't see the big deal- if she's a girlie girl and would like stuff like that I don't see why not to buy it for her if you can afford it
You sure say I a lot. -
2016-07-28 at 10:17 PM UTC.
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2016-07-28 at 11:58 PM UTC
Yes, that would be weird and creepy.
Why would it be creepy, only because she is 14? Or do you consider me so socially inept that i can't tell when a person cares for me or is flirty around me? Nigga' whenever i'm around she follows me like a shadow, insists on sitting next to me or and talking with me the whole time, we hug and are otherwise physical just not overly sexually so. When i say i love her i mean it, i'd never do anything to coax or coerce her into anything, but if i can charm her that's fair game..
You know i'm getting pretty tired of you pretending you're not a pedo or being fucking vague about it whenever the majority of posters in any particular thread have expressed negative views regarding the subject. Remember the story you told me about your step sister or whatever the fuck? She'd get naked and you'd watch and she would like it when you watched and act this kind of way on purpose around you? What was her age again? Like 6? And when she was 10 this kinda' thing you had just all of a sudden stopped and you were sad about it? See i don't care about what happened between you and the little loli, matter of fact i'd say you were lucky, it just pisses me the fuck off you act this way. It's like when you have a school friend and when the two of you are together you're all chummy then when you're at school he/she treats you like shit or just flat out ignores you. And i remember more stories, so from this point, every time you do this i'm going to post another story. -
2016-07-29 at 12:35 AM UTCBecause of her age and because she is your little cousin, yes. Of course, you already realize that your family would think it's weird/creepy which is why you question whether or not you should do it. Have you tried convincing your family members that incest and pedophilia are just part of your sexual orientation and that they should just accept it and not victimize you for it? I wouldn't advise that by the way.
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2016-07-29 at 12:40 AM UTC
Well, growing up I was always given all sorts of expensive jedielry. When I was 3 my grandfather gave me 1 kt diamond white gold earrings and right now I've got a 1 kt diamond on my hand in 14k gold. I've also over the years had all sorts of expensive shit. Ironicly enough, I hardly wear jedielry and am not impressed with rocks on precious metals. I even prefer silver most the time if I do wear stuff. So honeslty, I don't feel its a big deal. I appreciate what I have for sentimental reasons but I've never felt weird about recieving jedielry from important men inmy life. I don't see the big deal- if she's a girlie girl and would like stuff like that I don't see why not to buy it for her if you can afford it
She is a girly girl and i'm sure she would love it but in my family it is unusual to give anyone outside of your direct family particularly expensive birthday presents. So me giving her some fancy jediellery might arouse some suspicion and we're almost already inappropriately close with eachother and i don't want to clue the rest of my family in to the fact i have romantic feelings towards my cousin. -
2016-07-29 at 1:13 AM UTC
Because of her age and because she is your little cousin, yes.
Why is that creepy? Say we could objectively establish she likes me romantically too, would it still be creepy? Or is that just your personal bias towards the subject?Of course, you already realize that your family would think it's weird/creepy which is why you question whether or not you should do it. Have you tried convincing your family members that incest and pedophilia are just part of your sexual orientation and that they should just accept it and not victimize you for it?
1. Incest has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
2. I realize my family would disapprove but only because of their ideas about the subject not because i think my relationship and attitude towards her is inherently wrong.
[greentext]>victimize[/greentext]
Good job sneaking that one in, figger naggot.
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2016-07-29 at 1:35 AM UTCYou should buy her a gold plated vibrator, then post a vid of her using it.
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2016-07-29 at 1:41 AM UTC
You should buy her a gold plated vibrator, then post a vid of her using it.
Only if you do the same with your sister. (~_n) -
2016-07-29 at 2:42 AM UTCThis sounds like a classic case of, if you have to ask, you probably already know the answer.
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2016-07-29 at 3:32 AM UTC
Why is that creepy?
That's kinda like asking why is necrophilia disgusting. I mean, maybe it's a subjective thing because if you asked enough people a minority of them would say they are actually attracted to fucking the dead (or molesting children), but if the vast majority of people think something is disgusting or creepy or weird, is it OK to call the thing disgusting or creepy or weird? Yeah, probably, that's how most things work. But even if that is questionable does it actually matter? Does it change anything? Would it stop your family from reacting in a bad way if they found out you wanted to molest your little cousin? You tell me.
Also, I don't have a personal bias against this subject matter, I really dont care what you do with your cousin, I just find it an interesting topic for discussion and I enjoy at least TRYING to push you to defend your perspective which allows me to learn more about what and how you think about this subject. -
2016-07-29 at 5:03 AM UTC
That's kinda like asking why is necrophilia disgusting. I mean, maybe it's a subjective thing because if you asked enough people a minority of them would say they are actually attracted to fucking the dead (or molesting children)
Stopped reading right there.
If you'll divert your gaze to post 7 i said:
[greentext]>When i say i love her i mean it, i'd never do anything to coax or coerce her into anything.[/greentext]
Since you decided to be a dick about it your opinion has just become null and void.
And then i read:
[greentext]>Also, I don't have a personal bias against this subject matter, I really dont care what you do with your cousin, I just find it an interesting topic for discussion and I enjoy at least TRYING to push you to defend your perspective which allows me to learn more about what and how you think about this subject.[/greentext]
If you don't have any bias then don't be a dick about it. Because pedo =/= rapist =/= molester or what have you. -
2016-07-29 at 5:10 AM UTCOk, I'll try not to be a dick about it but I can't guarantee the rest of the world won't.
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2016-07-29 at 5:13 AM UTC
Ok, I'll try not to be a dick about it but I can't guarantee the rest of the world won't.
You don't say? -
2016-07-29 at 5:31 AM UTC... but if the vast majority of people think something is disgusting or creepy or weird, is it OK to call the thing disgusting or creepy or weird? Yeah, probably, that's how most things work. But even if that is questionable does it actually matter? Does it change anything? Would it stop your family from reacting in a bad way if they found out you wanted to make love to your little cousin? You tell me.
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2016-07-29 at 5:43 AM UTC
… but if the vast majority of people think something is disgusting or creepy or weird, is it OK to call the thing disgusting or creepy or weird? Yeah, probably, that's how most things work.
I'm not sure, i suppose aesthetics are fundamentally subjective.But even if that is questionable does it actually matter? Does it change anything? Would it stop your family from reacting in a bad way if they found out you wanted to make love to your little cousin? You tell me.
Probably wouldn't. I actually already made up my mind before i posted this thread, i will give her something nice at the upper limit of what would be considered acceptable and let the pieces fall as they may. And party with my little cousin obviously, she's great even without making love to her. Sex would be a bonus.
