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My retraction of previous beliefs and new opinions on human sexuality
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2015-12-15 at 3:09 AM UTCdear lord I'm going to regret this in the morning
pedophilia in itself makes me sick, just hearing the word. That makes me wonder, is it just the stigma that society programs us to believe and the label itself? When looking at and analyzing the actual act and meaning of pedophilia, as long as its 100 percent consensual, meaning the child and adult are both of sound mind and enough reasoning skills
sophie, sorry? -
2015-12-15 at 3:39 AM UTCThank you and i truly mean that, i appreciate your reflection on the subject and accept your apology.
That being said, i fully understand the desire to protect children, they are precious, and i do not mean that in a creepy sense. Just ao you know i absolutely do not view little girls as a means to personal gratification. It is hard to explain for me but truly caring for the girls comes with the attraction, sexual or otherwise. -
2015-12-15 at 6:43 AM UTCJust out of curiousity, being stoned and all... if you one day had a daughter, would you have the same feelings? I mean, part of fathering is caring for your offspring. I just see, you have a CHILD. How can a child consent at that age? How can they comprehend sex? Children are very volunuarable and taken advantage of even in some completely legal ways sometimes too. Look, if youre talking a teenager, already at puberty, well... honestly some of them are very sumb but they have a better shot at making an informed decision compaired to a 8year old kid. Anyway... whatever.
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2015-12-15 at 8:04 AM UTCTheres definitely a stigma to an extent... but most children are just that... children.. easy targets and it makes you question the motives of people who pursue such endevours... Theres some really cute younger teenage girls out there, but to me theres to much of a maturity gap for me to even to care to have a relationship with someone that young.
I think the reason why some people seek out kids as sexual partners is because they have a case of peter pan syndrome and like to live vicariously through someone who is more innocent than they are.
It's a slippery slope.. I've known girls in their teens who were much more sexually experienced than some guy in their early 20's.. My first gf/lay was 14 years old, I was 16 about to be 17 and my parents tried to make me feel like I was doing something so wrong, while not even taking into factor I was just a wee lad myself. -
2015-12-15 at 8:25 AM UTCIt's a stigma that is shaped by and simultaneously shapes our perception that it's just too easy to convince kids to fuck you for it to really be fair. Seriously, if I wanted I could just go to the playground down the street from me every day on my lunch break, pick out one specific kid and give him a chocolate bar every day and talk to him with validating language until eventually I learn when his parents are least careful and then I scoop him up and cross over and out of Chicagoland into the nearer reaches of Hammond, Indiana where I get a night at a hotel for $30 and leave him for dead in the dumpster behind it the next morning. It'd cost me less than $100 and I wouldn't have to miss work.
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2015-12-15 at 10:21 AM UTC
It's a stigma that is shaped by and simultaneously shapes our perception that it's just too easy to convince kids to fuck you for it to really be fair. Seriously, if I wanted I could just go to the playground down the street from me every day on my lunch break, pick out one specific kid and give him a chocolate bar every day and talk to him with validating language until eventually I learn when his parents are least careful and then I scoop him up and cross over and out of Chicagoland into the nearer reaches of Hammond, Indiana where I get a night at a hotel for $30 and leave him for dead in the dumpster behind it the next morning. It'd cost me less than $100 and I wouldn't have to miss work.
Pedo =/= rapist/murderer. -
2015-12-15 at 10:38 AM UTC
Just out of curiousity, being stoned and all… if you one day had a daughter, would you have the same feelings? I mean, part of fathering is caring for your offspring. I just see, you have a CHILD. How can a child consent at that age? How can they comprehend sex? Children are very volunuarable and taken advantage of even in some completely legal ways sometimes too. Look, if youre talking a teenager, already at puberty, well… honestly some of them are very sumb but they have a better shot at making an informed decision compaired to a 8year old kid. Anyway… whatever.
People live and die dumb, unable to make good decisions for themselves. It seems reasonable that there are children who are fully as capable as adults in making decisions about sex. I mean the whole "they don't understand what they're getting into" line doesn't really pan out, some children would know and many adults fail quite spectacularly at showing the same foresight. I admit, I'm not particularly in favor of reduced age of consent laws, I think most children under the age of 18 aren't really qualified to make good decisions in that respect, as are many people older as well, but people seem to really abandon the ideas of liberty (something I don't hold in great regard to start with, although others do) as soon as you bring children into the equation.
I'm honestly split on the idea of decriminalizing pedophilia (the negative repercussions should be apparent) and designating certain classes of people so incompetent at making good decisions that they have to be kept away from things like sex (or forced into chemical castration or something similar). But if your argument lies on "children don't know enough to give informed consent" then there's this whole large secondary class of people who seem equally unable to do so but are not children and who we generally consider A-OK to have as much sex as pleases them. -
2015-12-15 at 11:07 AM UTCI like your logical approach to the issue lanny, you should read Oplus post in sploos. Original thread that sparkeds the current pedophilia discussion it's pretty insightful even if you think he is a tryhard pseudo intellectual he did study psychology and he is a smart guy.
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2015-12-15 at 1:18 PM UTCDiddlers should executed. They should be hung from the nearest sturdy tree, and then we can all enjoy the pleasure of watching them kick and gurgle and have their head turn purple while dancing on the end of their rope.
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2015-12-15 at 1:55 PM UTC
Diddlers should executed. They should be hung from the nearest sturdy tree, and then we can all enjoy the pleasure of watching them kick and gurgle and have their head turn purple while dancing on the end of their rope.
Post your granddaughter. -
2015-12-15 at 6:36 PM UTCDifferent people have different ideas of whats wrong and right. This is kind of on topic but not nessecarily about lolis, on the hookup sight plently of fish the bar anyone from searching for 18-21 if you're 28 or over.. even though its completely legal. But their idea behind it is , why would a 28 year old want to hang out with an 18 year old (as if its anyones business) though for me personally any girl I've any real connection with in the past 2 years, they've been atleast 21. I think its for me i give off an agressive vibe that the typical 18/19 year old doesn't know how to handle.
Thus I haven't dated anyone in the last 2 years under the age of 21. But it could be just a woman thing because I've known some girls who were extremely skittish and they were older than me.. -
2015-12-16 at 2:09 AM UTC
dear lord I'm going to regret this in the morning
pedophilia in itself makes me sick, just hearing the word. That makes me wonder, is it just the stigma that society programs us to believe and the label itself? When looking at and analyzing the actual act and meaning of pedophilia, as long as its 100 percent consensual, meaning the child and adult are both of sound mind and enough reasoning skills
sophie, sorry?
seems like those ssri's ,antipsychotics, and spice are really getting to you to apologize for sophies blatant degenerate behavior. -
2015-12-16 at 2:25 AM UTC
dear lord I'm going to regret this in the morning
pedophilia in itself makes me sick, just hearing the word. That makes me wonder, is it just the stigma that society programs us to believe and the label itself? When looking at and analyzing the actual act and meaning of pedophilia, as long as its 100 percent consensual, meaning the child and adult are both of sound mind and enough reasoning skills
sophie, sorry?
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2015-12-16 at 2:51 AM UTCMaybe the allure of seeking after 'innocent' youth and pre-teens and 'lolis' and all that, is because they, as it stands, expect nothing. They know no better, they've had no better, and so one can 'do no wrong,' for lack of a better term given the context of the entire pedophilia argument.
You wouldn't have to be embarrassed about poor performance. You wouldn't have to be embarrassed about cumming in 10 seconds. You wouldn't have to be embarrassed about a lack to get it up. You wouldn't have to be embarrassed that you're too fucking inexperienced yourself to know how to locate the clitoris. You wouldn't have to worry about any of that stuff, you just get to be the teacher, even if you suck at teaching, just like school, your kindergartner doesn't really know if you know what you're talking about or not- you can say and do anything essentially, and there will be little to no judgement.
As you go up the age brackets I suppose this inability to discern one's poor teachings begins to decrease, yet at the same time, even dealing with an 'experienced' for her age pubescent teenager, you are still likely someone whom she views as 'experienced' and you can get away with some flaws in your 'game' due to their simple-minded pride as it relates to them 'hooking up with an older guy.'
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2015-12-16 at 4:03 AM UTC
Maybe the allure of seeking after 'innocent' youth and pre-teens and 'lolis' and all that, is because they, as it stands, expect nothing. They know no better, they've had no better, and so one can 'do no wrong,' for lack of a better term given the context of the entire pedophilia argument.
You wouldn't have to be embarrassed about poor performance. You wouldn't have to be embarrassed about cumming in 10 seconds. You wouldn't have to be embarrassed about a lack to get it up. You wouldn't have to be embarrassed that you're too fucking inexperienced yourself to know how to locate the clitoris. You wouldn't have to worry about any of that stuff, you just get to be the teacher, even if you suck at teaching, just like school, your kindergartner doesn't really know if you know what you're talking about or not- you can say and do anything essentially, and there will be little to no judgement.
As you go up the age brackets I suppose this inability to discern one's poor teachings begins to decrease, yet at the same time, even dealing with an 'experienced' for her age pubescent teenager, you are still likely someone whom she views as 'experienced' and you can get away with some flaws in your 'game' due to their simple-minded pride as it relates to them 'hooking up with an older guy.'
The only reason i like lolis is because they are adorable, playful, sweet, and physically the most attractive to me out of all the age groups.
As you recall i have an adult gf currently so your argument about pedos liking lolis because they lack game for adult women is incorrect, at least in my case. -
2015-12-16 at 5:39 AM UTC
thats how i know you're hts, because only a woman would use that meme. -
2015-12-16 at 5:44 AM UTC
The only reason i like lolis is because they are adorable, playful, sweet, and physically the most attractive to me out of all the age groups.
As you recall i have an adult gf currently so your argument about pedos liking lolis because they lack game for adult women is incorrect, at least in my case.
mehh i think you're grasping at straws again, plently of other women are willing to put forth that kind of effort, but I think you lack something that most women around your age require , thus why you go to "lollis" I don't think you should be hung for your shortcomings (no pun intended) but I think you need to take a deeper look at your life and attract girls who are more on your level, unless your level is really that of a child.. ( i guess that would explain a lot )
It's almost why many men resort to having sex with other men, because they aren't up to the evolutionary standards to compete against of males. It happens all the time, you as a man of scientific inquiry should know that.
who knows maybe you'll grow a dick one day and not seek children out. You never know, anything can happen. -
2015-12-16 at 6:25 AM UTC
I like your logical approach to the issue lanny, you should read Oplus post in sploos. Original thread that sparkeds the current pedophilia discussion it's pretty insightful even if you think he is a tryhard pseudo intellectual he did study psychology and he is a smart guy.
Wait, Oplus is back or was this a thread on rdfrn/sanc?
I actually like ole Oplus, like you said he's definitely smart. Well read too. Our big shit-flinging thing back on, uhh, one of those boards was over shitposting, he wanted somewhere with enforced standards and, as evidenced by where we all are now, I had different ideas about how a forum should be run. But I always liked what he had to say even if I disagreed, and I respect that he wanted to recapture some of the loftier aspects of the forum even if I didn't agree on means. I think my own shitposting was balanced out but enough "contribution" that he warmed up to me as well, at least that's how I remember things when the fern up and died. -
2015-12-16 at 8:25 AM UTC
Wait, Oplus is back or was this a thread on rdfrn/sanc?
I actually like ole Oplus, like you said he's definitely smart. Well read too. Our big shit-flinging thing back on, uhh, one of those boards was over shitposting, he wanted somewhere with enforced standards and, as evidenced by where we all are now, I had different ideas about how a forum should be run. But I always liked what he had to say even if I disagreed, and I respect that he wanted to recapture some of the loftier aspects of the forum even if I didn't agree on means. I think my own shitposting was balanced out but enough "contribution" that he warmed up to me as well, at least that's how I remember things when the fern up and died.
easydoesit is his handle here, he made it to contact me for a few chat sessions since we are hommies for life it was a secret but when he startes talking about his education in psychology and spciology and whatnot he inadvertently outed himself so to speak.
he is gone again tho bit you can read his awesome post about human sexuality in sploos original bread.
