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Nervous around the opposite sex
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2024-07-18 at 6:47 AM UTCI've never felt nervous around men and thought it just meant I was confident, but now idk if that's normal to never feel nervous around the opposite sex so I'm questioning my sexuality again. I've felt nervous around women but I thought that was just fear of them.
Has anyone else never felt nervous around the opposite sex?The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2024-07-18 at 6:49 AM UTCMaybe you’re a sociopath and incapable of being nervous around anyone…
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2024-07-18 at 7:01 AM UTCIn a romantic situation or if I’m wanting it to be one..the woman is going to make me more nervous than a man
I can be nervous around men ..but feminine energy takes over ..and I become more confident…
With a woman I’m somehow the man lol and I can’t pull the confidence from my feminine energy…
So if I’m nervous I have to use a more dominant energy to over come that ..
I hope that makes sense it did when I was typing it lolThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2024-07-18 at 7:16 AM UTC
Originally posted by CandyRein In a romantic situation or if I’m wanting it to be one..the woman is going to make me more nervous than a man
I can be nervous around men ..but feminine energy takes over ..and I become more confident…
With a woman I’m somehow the man lol and I can’t pull the confidence from my feminine energy…
So if I’m nervous I have to use a more dominant energy to over come that ..
I hope that makes sense it did when I was typing it lol
Men have to deal with a lot of rejection and it doesn't seem to wreak the same kind of havoc on them.
It looks like all the women on this site are into girls then. Makes me wonder if all the men are secretly into men.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2024-07-18 at 7:18 AM UTCI hope not Lmao
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2024-07-18 at 7:22 AM UTC
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2024-07-18 at 12:30 PM UTCIf I’m smitten & i mean, truly “smitten” with somebody I can become an insecure nilly-nelly, can get mind-racing nervous, and unreasonably jelly!
Which, to me is a good thing… It means I really like/d you.
Heaven forbid tho… if, emotionally, I start moving to the other end of the spectrum~ that of “Indifference.” <——— that’s a whole other ballgame. -
2024-07-18 at 12:34 PM UTC
Originally posted by Dirtbag Men have to deal with a lot of rejection and it doesn't seem to wreak the same kind of havoc on them.
Because men expect it. It's water off a ducks back to most normal men...It's a numbers game...ask 100 women for a blumpkin and only 1 says yes..that's a win and the 99 are quickly forgotten.
That might be hard for a princess to understand. -
2024-07-18 at 12:37 PM UTCSmoke a joint and relax a little.
Or spend your whole life being a bitter fuck asking never ending questions with no answers. -
2024-07-18 at 1:38 PM UTCthat feeling when someone bumps into you at a party and causes the plastic baggie of spaghetti you struggled to finish and brought as leftovers to fall out of your pocket and all over the popular girls parents freshly cleaned carpet
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2024-07-18 at 1:50 PM UTC
Originally posted by the man who put it in my hood that feeling when someone bumps into you at a party and causes the plastic baggie of spaghetti you struggled to finish and brought as leftovers to fall out of your pocket and all over the popular girls parents freshly cleaned carpet
Even worse if it's a colostomy bag. -
2024-11-29 at 7:19 AM UTCFeeling nervous around the opposite sex is a common experience, and your lack of nervousness around men does not indicate anything abnormal about your sexuality.
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2024-11-29 at 7:26 AM UTC
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2024-11-29 at 12:44 PM UTCThe following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2024-11-29 at 1:42 PM UTC
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2024-11-29 at 2:50 PM UTC
Originally posted by Bradley Do you consider men who have not undergone a sex change to be your opposite sex? Or are women your opposite sex still?
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It wouldn't feel wholly truthful to say that, in general, I consider either a true opposite at this point. I'm objectively in some kind of fucked up liminal gender space, so "opposite sex" isn't particularly useful to me anymore as a concept. idk. Feels kind of like asking whether the opposite of a triangle is a square or a circle. Insofar as "opposite sex" still does remain handy to me, the answer probably varies based on context - my opposite is whatever seems apposite.
In speech and mannerisms, in love and lust, men are more often my opposites. In my... sentiments and attitudes though, I often find myself at odds with women. I'm too rough around the edges, too gruff. Of course, this is not a feeling that's completely foreign to women of the unpenised persuasion either, so... idk. 🤷♀️
I think this question is mostly just hard for me to answer because I will never be happy to fully claim the mantle of womanhood in this lifetime. To claim that I am now fully a woman (which I would be, by way of claiming men are conclusively my opposite), I would be conceding that this life was somehow "enough". That I am satisfied. And I'm not satisfied. I'm incredibly dissatisfied. I am a smol seed of yin desperately trying to flower amidst dense fields of yang. There's something I'm growing towards, and accepting that I am already at my destination would mean losing sight of that. It would be a betrayal of myself. -
2024-11-29 at 5:43 PM UTC
Originally posted by Elbow 🤔
It wouldn't feel wholly truthful to say that, in general, I consider either a true opposite at this point. I'm objectively in some kind of fucked up liminal gender space, so "opposite sex" isn't particularly useful to me anymore as a concept. idk. Feels kind of like asking whether the opposite of a triangle is a square or a circle. Insofar as "opposite sex" still does remain handy to me, the answer probably varies based on context - my opposite is whatever seems apposite.
In speech and mannerisms, in love and lust, men are more often my opposites. In my… sentiments and attitudes though, I often find myself at odds with women. I'm too rough around the edges, too gruff. Of course, this is not a feeling that's completely foreign to women of the unpenised persuasion either, so… idk. 🤷♀️
I think this question is mostly just hard for me to answer because I will never be happy to fully claim the mantle of womanhood in this lifetime. To claim that I am now fully a woman (which I would be, by way of claiming men are conclusively my opposite), I would be conceding that this life was somehow "enough". That I am satisfied. And I'm not satisfied. I'm incredibly dissatisfied. I am a smol seed of yin desperately trying to flower amidst dense fields of yang. There's something I'm growing towards, and accepting that I am already at my destination would mean losing sight of that. It would be a betrayal of myself.
what is it that you really want ?
a vagina, uterus and the ability to men-strually bleed and conceive
or are you contend being a person with penis dressed up in girly dresses. -
2024-11-29 at 7:07 PM UTCu better where that latex so you don't get that late text that honey i think im late text
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2024-11-29 at 7:09 PM UTCwear
