2024-10-05 at 9:04 AM UTC
I met a 26 year old woman online a few weeks ago and initially I wasn't interested in her, but she seemed to be interested in me, and after talking to her more, I was interested in her too. I told her we should meet up in real life to see how we vibe IRL, since we got along really well over text. She agreed and it was decided that I would meet her in Germany, where she lives and works. I met her last week, we spent the whole day together and I enjoyed the time spent. At the end, she told me that it's a yes from her, meaning she wants to marry me. But here's the problem... She's too masculine-looking for me. I almost feel feminine next to her. Her personality is really good, however and she's sweet but the only problem here is that I don't find her attractive. And that's hypocritical coming from me, since I'm not attractive myself either. But how will things go down in the bedroom when I feel zero attraction to her? Well, I don't know how to break things off since she's really into me and more importantly, because I don't want to hurt her feelings. Yeah, the girl I used to like had been cruel to me but my negative experiences with women haven't turned me into a bitter asshole. If anything, I now completely understand her and wish I could say that I totally get why she turned me down. I just wish I was cold-hearted enough, for a lack of a better word, to just end things instead of letting this continue. I'd hate to be the reason behind someone's sadness.
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2024-10-05 at 9:11 AM UTC
You're just finding excuses so you don't have to change. If it wasn't that it'd be something else.
2024-10-05 at 9:44 AM UTC
Think of the pros and cons of being with her. Worst comes to worst just put a bag over her head. If you really cant stand how she looks and thereβs no way to work around that, find someone else. Theres tons of people. If you really love her then go for marrying her, if not, dont waste your time with her
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2024-10-05 at 11:21 AM UTC
Can't you just put her in the niqab or burka and call it a day?
You Muslims had to solve this problem of ugly women a long time ago and came up with a unique strategy that really works.
When you didn't join ISIL i knew you were a massive pussy.
2024-10-05 at 11:32 AM UTC
Does she have a decent body? You can just fuck her from behind or make her keep the burqa on.
2024-10-05 at 11:39 AM UTC
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[the staring tame crusher]
Hey man If you can keep this up you might even get a second wife by the time you're 86.
Inshallah
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2024-10-05 at 11:46 AM UTC
Post pics of manly girlfriend
2024-10-05 at 11:54 AM UTC
Lol, get married after one date.
2024-10-05 at 12:10 PM UTC
who cares bro?
1- I don't speak Arabic
2- I don't care
2024-10-05 at 1:44 PM UTC
you speak Arabic now? I suppose you need to living in Britain.
2024-10-05 at 3:56 PM UTC
Nigga you ugly! Find you an ugly bitch and get yo fuq on. Shut this shit up.
2024-10-05 at 4:07 PM UTC
If you really don't want to marry her, have you tried telling her about your finances?
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