2024-08-25 at 2:28 PM UTC
They disappear mice I suspect, small birds.
2024-08-25 at 2:55 PM UTC
im thinking about putitng a crab box in the canal but I am worried someone will steal it and ID on't have the means to run a chain threw it, even if I do that they will steal my fish
2024-08-25 at 3:03 PM UTC
Unattended crab boxes are unwise.
2024-08-25 at 3:04 PM UTC
u realize the crab box sits for days and days right? YOu're not just gonna camp there
2024-08-25 at 3:11 PM UTC
i can tell ur crabby today
2024-08-25 at 3:40 PM UTC
A crab and a lobster walk into a bar...
2024-08-25 at 8:47 PM UTC
Idk what this is going to be actually so the flair might not be totally appropriate.
TL;DR: Me and my gf don't do it enough for me. We got into lots of fight bc of this and bc of that I put a lot of pressure on it and the relationship in general. We often go 1 whole month not doing it and it somehow destroys me. I can't relieve myself alone, I don't want to watch porn bc I think it messes my brain up and makes me hornier but without it it never feels enough. This situation got to the point where I considered breaking up with her, but always stayed cause it's pretty much our only big problem compared to all the good stuff. Now I'm at her house and she will be back home in a couple of hours and we are alone at home and I hope she will have sex w me, but idk how to approach her in a healthy way without being pushy or just leave it to her.
EDIT: We both like to have sex with each other btw. We talk about it a lot, we know what the other likes and not. I think I know how to have sex with her. The thing is we have different sex drives and idk how to cope with that.
So I (M22) have a gf whos 21 and I really love her. We've been together for one and a half yr. I enjoy spending time w her even though we don't share the exact same interest we always made up for it by doing a lot of outdoors stuff, making the other discover new music (which is a big deal for me), she even started playing some videogames bc of me and I got into some stuff she always liked as well. We watch lots of series together and we even share similar goals in life career-wise.
Everything is good w her, every argument we managed to get over except for the sex.
Basically I am not completely satisfied with how many times we do it. We sometimes go one whole month without doing it or doing it just once. It's frustrating and idk what to do. Thing is, she's super hot; she's the hottest girl I've ever dated, truly a goddess to me, very athletic body and cute face with traits that I have always liked in girls, while I'm just some skinny guy and I am not sure I could ever be in her league. This gives me some insecurities that I am trying to face in therapy, but usually what makes me feel better is having sex, knowing the other person thinks I am somewhat hot and gorgeous. What I get is usually that I am "cute" and I honestly don't like it very often. I want to feel hot.
But anyway I want to have sex very often, especially when we're alone at home and when that happens I become very pushy. We fought a lot of time for this, even to the point where I wasn't sure if I wanted to be w her anymore and told her, which just put even more tension to the relationship. This always ends with me apologizing and promising to be better and I swear I actually put effort into it, but when we're alone and I see her body I become so horny I barely resist.
Last fight was 5 days ago I think. We were on vacation and had a room all for us. The vacation lasted 10 days and we had sex just once. I rly wanted to do it one more time before going away and became very pushy, so I basically f up and she got mad at me and told me we would have done it but bc of my behaviour and how I treated her she didn't want anymore. I apologized and accepted that, promised her one more time to stop being so pushy. Now a little disclaimer: I am NOT going to talk to her again abt this after this post. It doesn't really change anything and just puts her under even more pressure, so I'll leave it.
Anyway, last thing is that now I am alone in her house, waiting for her to come back from work. Her parents are away and we got the house all for ourselves. Today's kinda the last chance we get before returning back to our lives where we get few chances to have sex. I am rly hoping she comes forward and tries to do it without me giving much input but I doubt so. Tomorrow her period starts and she never wants to do anything while on it. I am trying to be a good bf, cleaning the house, cooking for her nd stuff both bc I want her to be happy and also cause I really hope I will get sex out of it, I can't hide that. I hope we will do something at least some foreplay in the shower but I am not sure we will sigh.
I've tried anything tbh, even to be patient but it doesn't work. She rarely makes a move. Idk how to approach her in a healthy way and idk how to relieve myself. I am trying not to watch porn bc I think it makes it worse and it makes me hornier and it also gives me fake hopes on what the sex would be like, but just now I almost opened pornhub and resisted in the end but idk how much longer it's gonna last. I don't want to fight and I really would love to live the sex in an easy, chill and carefree way like she does but for me is really a big deal. Idk what to do.
