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2024-08-15 at 3:07 AM UTCMarriage is for dummies. It was the worst 2 years of My life. I'm enjoying being single.
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2024-08-15 at 1:18 PM UTCThe good thing about marriage is you can look forward to the divorce.
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2024-08-15 at 1:21 PM UTCDid you lose a bunch of money
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2024-08-15 at 1:22 PM UTCAnd I'm still over here screaming prenuptial agreement
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2024-08-15 at 1:27 PM UTC
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2024-08-15 at 1:36 PM UTCI think you are all misunderstanding the true meaning of the sacrament of marriage which has been degraded by secular immoral society
hen the Catholic Church teaches that marriage between two baptized persons is a sacrament, it is saying that the couple’s relationship expresses in a unique way the unbreakable bond of love between Christ and his people. Like the other six sacraments of the Church, marriage is a sign or symbol which reveals the Lord Jesus and through which his divine life and love are communicated. All seven sacraments were instituted by Christ and were entrusted to the Church to be celebrated in faith within and for the community of believers. The rituals and prayers by which a sacrament is celebrated serve to express visibly what God is doing invisibly.
In a sacramental marriage, God’s love becomes present to the spouses in their total union and also flows through them to their family and community. By their permanent, faithful and exclusive giving to each other, symbolized in sexual intercourse, the couple reveals something of God’s unconditional love. The sacrament of Christian marriage involves their entire life as they journey together through the ups and downs of marriage and become more able to give to and receive from each other. Their life becomes sacramental to the extent that the couple cooperates with God’s action in their life and sees themselves as living “in Christ” and Christ living and acting in their relationship, attitudes and actions.
Catholic teaching holds that sacraments bring grace to those who receive them with the proper disposition. Grace is a way of describing how God shares the divine life with us and gives us the help we need to live as followers of Christ. In marriage, the grace of this sacrament brings to the spouses the particular help they need to be faithful and to be good parents. It also helps a couple to serve others beyond their immediate family and to show the community that a loving and lasting marriage is both desirable and possible.
Pope Paul VI wrote: “By it [the Sacrament of Matrimony] husband and wife are strengthened and…consecrated for the faithful accomplishment of their proper duties, for the carrying out of their proper vocation even to perfection, and the Christian witness which is proper to them before the whole world” (Humanae Vitae, n. 25).To Christian Couples
25. And now We turn in a special way to Our own sons and daughters, to those most of all whom God calls to serve Him in the state of marriage. While the Church does indeed hand on to her children the inviolable conditions laid down by God's law, she is also the herald of salvation and through the sacraments she flings wide open the channels of grace through which man is made a new creature responding in charity and true freedom to the design of his Creator and Savior, experiencing too the sweetness of the yoke of Christ. (31)
In humble obedience then to her voice, let Christian husbands and wives be mindful of their vocation to the Christian life, a vocation which, deriving from their Baptism, has been confirmed anew and made more explicit by the Sacrament of Matrimony. For by this sacrament they are strengthened and, one might almost say, consecrated to the faithful fulfillment of their duties. Thus will they realize to the full their calling and bear witness as becomes them, to Christ before the world. (32) For the Lord has entrusted to them the task of making visible to men and women the holiness and joy of the law which united inseparably their love for one another and the cooperation they give to God's love, God who is the Author of human life.
We have no wish at all to pass over in silence the difficulties, at times very great, which beset the lives of Christian married couples. For them, as indeed for every one of us, "the gate is narrow and the way is hard, that leads to life." (33) Nevertheless it is precisely the hope of that life which, like a brightly burning torch, lights up their journey, as, strong in spirit, they strive to live "sober, upright and godly lives in this world," (34) knowing for sure that "the form of this world is passing away." (35)
Recourse to God
For this reason husbands and wives should take up the burden appointed to them, willingly, in the strength of faith and of that hope which "does not disappoint us, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us ~}36 Then let them implore the help of God with unremitting prayer and, most of all, let them draw grace and charity from that unfailing fount which is the Eucharist. If, however, sin still exercises its hold over them, they are not to lose heart. Rather must they, humble and persevering, have recourse to the mercy of God, abundantly bestowed in the Sacrament of Penance. In this way, for sure, they will be able to reach that perfection of married life which the Apostle sets out in these words: "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the Church. . . Even so husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no man ever hates his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, as Christ does the Church. . . This is a great mystery, and I mean in reference to Christ and the Church; however, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband." (37)The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2024-08-15 at 1:39 PM UTC
Originally posted by the man who put it in my hood I think you are all misunderstanding the true meaning of the sacrament of marriage which has been degraded by secular immoral society
Then if it's been degraded it's you that's misunderstanding the CURRENT true meaning when citing the PAST true meaning.
The current true meaning of marriage translates to "you made a dumb" -
2024-08-15 at 1:42 PM UTCThe meaning has not changed, only societies understanding of it has because they reject natural law in favor of national law
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2024-08-15 at 1:44 PM UTC
Originally posted by the man who put it in my hood The meaning has not changed, only societies understanding of it has because they reject natural law in favor of national law
Words rarely have one meaning...as a student of Congolese you should know that.
Language/words have always been dynamic
As a gay man (using the meaning of faggot not happy) you should know that -
2024-08-15 at 2:27 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Those are easy to get around.
Yah best bet is live in a state that doesn't recognize common law marriage and just never get married
And yes prenups help but the succubus will still come out with some of your money and shit just likely a bit less than if u didn't get a prenup
Marriage is dumb as fuck and any bitch that thinks different isn't worth marrying imho -
2024-08-15 at 2:35 PM UTCAre you male or female OP and why was it bad? Apparently marriage makes men happy and women unhappy. I don't want it either but wouldn't mind having a wedding to feel special to spite my relatives. I don't see how you can have a child with someone or own a house together unless you're married.
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2024-08-15 at 2:57 PM UTCThe intimate community of life and love which constitutes the married state has been established by the Creator and endowed by him with its own proper laws. . . . God himself is the author of marriage. The vocation to marriage is written in the very nature of man and woman as they came from the hand of the Creator. Marriage is not a purely human institution despite the many variations it may have undergone through the centuries in different cultures, social structures, and spiritual attitudes. These differences should not cause us to forget its common and permanent characteristics. Although the dignity of this institution is not transparent everywhere with the same clarity, some sense of the greatness of the matrimonial union exists in all cultures. The well-being of the individual person and of both human and Christian society is closely bound up with the healthy state of conjugal and family life
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2024-08-15 at 2:59 PM UTCI wouldn't trust any man I'm not blood-related to to be my next of kin.
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2024-08-15 at 3:07 PM UTCIg I could always get it annulled and not tell my family. But finding someone who'd want to spend so much on a wedding and rings just to spite my family and make me happy is another story.
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2024-08-15 at 3:21 PM UTC
Originally posted by RIPtotse Yah best bet is live in a state that doesn't recognize common law marriage and just never get married
And yes prenups help but the succubus will still come out with some of your money and shit just likely a bit less than if u didn't get a prenup
Marriage is dumb as fuck and any bitch that thinks different isn't worth marrying imho
Common law marriage is dumb so that. And yeah don’t be with women who are going to take your shit. Like find women who have their own shit and don’t rely on you. If you build something together obviously that’s different and those assets have to be split but what’s yours is yours and what’s hers is hers.
I would never dream of taking half of Lanny’s assets. Fucking kidding me.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2024-08-15 at 3:40 PM UTC
Originally posted by frala Common law marriage is dumb so that. And yeah don’t be with women who are going to take your shit. Like find women who have their own shit and don’t rely on you. If you build something together obviously that’s different and those assets have to be split but what’s yours is yours and what’s hers is hers.
I would never dream of taking half of Lanny’s assets. Fucking kidding me.
Gotta love how/when people (male or female) will make a poor choice in their partners then… ALL women- ALL men are bad.
No accountability in/for “their” fuq’d up decision making.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2024-08-15 at 3:54 PM UTC
Originally posted by Netflxchillr Gotta love how/when people (male or female) will make a poor choice in their partners then… ALL women- ALL men are bad.
No accountability in/for “their” fuq’d up decision making.
I’ve watched that shit my entire life and I hate it with a passion. Like people just get married on a whim and have kids without any forethought and then end up in the absolute biggest fucking financial and emotional messes ever. Then it’s oh men are shit or women are batshit insane lol.
Well ok pal.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2024-08-15 at 4 PM UTCSecular society only promotes brainwash and evil and cannot separate materialism from the sacrament of marriage. I think this is pretty telling and the reason why 99% of people you meet on dating sites are exactly the same and are mindless secular sheep that only exist for the sake of the state and law, not for God and natural law and things like family.
In that view a family can cease to exist by a government order and a divorce or marriage is just a legal state, like a contract agreed upon by two parties and GOD has nothing to do with it. Truly a deranged view of reality that has taken a strangle hold over everything
The result of which is movements like MigTows, Mens rights activists, radical feminism and pedophilic, genderqueer, polyamorous and other such sexual immoralities all stem from this basic destruction of morality promoted by nation state globalist secular society -
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