What words would you use to describe me?

1. 2024-05-31 at 8:26 AM UTC

   #41
   Dirtbag African Astronaut
   I have a folder of nice things people have said to me.
   
   
2. 2024-05-31 at 8:27 AM UTC

   #42
   DontTellEm Black Hole

   Originally posted by Dirtbag Best friends hate everyone who's mean to you and it's mutual. It looks like you settled for less.

   
   
   
   Or. Ur a asshole who attracts everyone. Best friends are best friends & ur basic bum.
3. 2024-05-31 at 8:28 AM UTC

   #43
   The Self Taught Man Black Hole

   Originally posted by DontTellEm Do u think you are?? Seriously?

   
   Y-yes?
4. 2024-05-31 at 8:29 AM UTC

   #44
   

   ner vegas African Astronaut

   Originally posted by Dirtbag I have a folder of nice things people have said to me.
   
   

   
   that's kind of sad
5. 2024-05-31 at 8:30 AM UTC

   #45
   DontTellEm Black Hole
   H HhhUuuh… maybe . Are u scared dillweed??
6. 2024-05-31 at 8:31 AM UTC

   #46
   The Self Taught Man Black Hole

   Originally posted by ner vegas you're a narcissist looking for gullible idiots that adore you

   
   I don't think she's looking for adoration - if someone adores her she will snap back pretty quick about how they are a misogynist or whatever.
   
   Misogynist is like antisemite, it's a meaningless term that means nothing other than exclusionism.
7. 2024-05-31 at 8:32 AM UTC

   #47
   DontTellEm Black Hole

   Originally posted by ner vegas that's kind of sad

   
   
   I wish some crazy bitch would be actually crazy.
8. 2024-05-31 at 8:46 AM UTC

   #48
   The Self Taught Man Black Hole

   Originally posted by DontTellEm lol. Let’s take a second to explore this.

   
   What is there to explore? It's a simple purity spiral. It goes something like:
   
   "I can't be your friend cos you might betray me"
   "I can't be your friend cos you are friends with people I distrust"
   "I can't be your friend cos you are friends with all these misogynists"
   "I can't be your friend cos you yourself have internalised misogyny you can't get over"
   
   The struggle session is real, but the reason for a system existing existing is in the outcome, not the stated goal.
   
   Kafka isn't looking for "friends" in the traditional sense of the word.
9. 2024-05-31 at 8:49 AM UTC

   #49
   Dirtbag African Astronaut

   Originally posted by Donald Trump I don't think she's looking for adoration - if someone adores her she will snap back pretty quick about how they are a misogynist or whatever.
   
   Misogynist is like antisemite, it's a meaningless term that means nothing other than exclusionism.

   
   You're only proving how sinister and relentless men are when it comes to trying to hurt women. You have given me life-ruining advice, tried to gaslight me and I will never forgive you for that. You talk down to me, don't ask my opinion on things and dismiss my experiences, that stems from you not viewing me as equal. I don't want anything to do with you, trying to gaslight me will only make me despise you more.
10. 2024-05-31 at 8:50 AM UTC

    #50
    DontTellEm Black Hole
    So why is she begging for friends when she doesn’t find one friend equal
11. 2024-05-31 at 8:50 AM UTC

    #51
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    Most people are scumbags and I would rather be alone than have phoney friends, it's better for my soul.
12. 2024-05-31 at 8:50 AM UTC

    #52
    The Self Taught Man Black Hole

    Originally posted by Dirtbag You're only proving how sinister and relentless men are when it comes to trying to hurt women. You have given me life-ruining advice, tried to gaslight me and I will never forgive you for that. You talk down to me, don't ask my opinion on things and dismiss my experiences, that stems from you not viewing me as equal. I don't want anything to do with you, trying to gaslight me will only make me despise you more.

    
    I never gave you life ruining advice or tried to "gaslight" you.
    
    The rest is probably true.
13. 2024-05-31 at 8:52 AM UTC

    #53
    The Self Taught Man Black Hole

    Originally posted by Dirtbag Most people are scumbags and I would rather be alone than have phoney friends, it's better for my soul.

    
    https://vocationsireland.com/
14. 2024-05-31 at 8:57 AM UTC

    #54
    Dirtbag African Astronaut

    Originally posted by Donald Trump I never gave you life ruining advice or tried to "gaslight" you.
    
    The rest is probably true.

    
    You did. You just said I should appreciate people who mistreat me, chill out instead of standing up for myself, settle for an unhappy relationship and have a baby with someone I don't even love, don't look for someone who loves me.
15. 2024-05-31 at 8:58 AM UTC

    #55
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    You also implied men aren't terrible and that misogyny isn't real, that's a psychological attack to try and make me more vulnerable to men so they can hurt me.
16. 2024-05-31 at 8:58 AM UTC

    #56
    DontTellEm Black Hole

    Originally posted by Dirtbag Most people are scumbags and I would rather be alone than have phoney friends, it's better for my soul.

    
    You’re a slow person. It’s completely strange that u hold yourself in such high regards.? What do u actually offer another human being? Lol
17. 2024-05-31 at 8:59 AM UTC

    #57
    Dirtbag African Astronaut
    I don't forgive people who try to ruin my life.
18. 2024-05-31 at 9 AM UTC

    #58
    The Self Taught Man Black Hole

    Originally posted by Dirtbag You did. You just said I should appreciate people who mistreat me, chill out instead of standing up for myself, settle for an unhappy relationship and have a baby with someone I don't even love, don't look for someone who loves me.

    
    I did what?
    All those accusations are based on true events. I admire your ability to remember things, but dislike your tendency to distort them, unless it is done on purpose for rhetorical/trolling purposes.
19. 2024-05-31 at 9:01 AM UTC

    #59
    The Self Taught Man Black Hole

    Originally posted by Dirtbag I don't forgive people who try to ruin my life.

    
    You seem to be doing a fairly good job of that on your own.
20. 2024-05-31 at 9:04 AM UTC

    #60
    DontTellEm Black Hole
    lol goofy. No one can ruin ur life but you.