2023-02-28 at 4:19 AM UTC
Ajax
African Astronaut
[rumor the placative aphakia]
My mom passed away. Let’s say within the last month. As you may or may not recall, my stepdad passed away
about four years ago. Both were unexpected and both hit hard.
The main things that make it easier are having an extraordinary outpouring of love and support and me staying busy by being the one who takes care of all the business. It’s the quiet moments that are the loudest.
I thankfully have zero regrets with her. We had a great relationship and we were talking up until the night before she passed.
Hug your loved ones and let them know you love them. Take the time to enjoy the moments. When it comes time to share the eulogy, don’t be afraid to share the stories that made you laugh.
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lemme be the first to congratulate you
2023-02-28 at 5:07 AM UTC
Every dream I dream is like
Some kinda rash and reckless scene
To give out such crazy love
You must be some kinda of drug
And if my time don't ever come
For me you're still the one
Damned if I don't, damned if I do
I gotta get a fix on you
2023-02-28 at 9:25 AM UTC
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2023-02-28 at 9:38 AM UTC
How can you sound so positive? When my dad passed zopiclone with alcohol helped for a few months, I bought a book of Japanese death poems, a grief journal to write memories down because they do fade. My journal entries from the time were mental, my ex let me vent to her, I used my newfound anger to fight with her boyfriend for hours. I had a psychologist and remember raving to them that autism was a vampire. My dad's money helped. Then I went to England to see my ex gf and ig I was distracted from then on.
2023-02-28 at 9:40 AM UTC
I dunno if it was zopiclone or stress but I acc developed dyslexia.
2023-02-28 at 10:24 AM UTC
Sorry playa. Thankfully ill probably die before my mom will.
2023-02-28 at 10:41 AM UTC
aldra
JIDF Controlled Opposition
Originally posted by Kafka
How can you sound so positive? When my dad passed zopiclone with alcohol helped for a few months, I bought a book of Japanese death poems, a grief journal to write memories down because they do fade. My journal entries from the time were mental, my ex let me vent to her, I used my newfound anger to fight with her boyfriend for hours. I had a psychologist and remember raving to them that autism was a vampire. My dad's money helped. Then I went to England to see my ex gf and ig I was distracted from then on.
Originally posted by Kafka
I dunno if it was zopiclone or stress but I acc developed dyslexia.
"how can I make this thread about me"
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2023-02-28 at 1:03 PM UTC
I was trying to share how I got through it then went down memory lane.
2023-03-01 at 3:19 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka
How can you sound so positive? When my dad passed zopiclone with alcohol helped for a few months, I bought a book of Japanese death poems, a grief journal to write memories down because they do fade. My journal entries from the time were mental, my ex let me vent to her, I used my newfound anger to fight with her boyfriend for hours. I had a psychologist and remember raving to them that autism was a vampire. My dad's money helped. Then I went to England to see my ex gf and ig I was distracted from then on.
Humans are like Skittles. We are all different colors and flavors. We handle life and death differently.
I'm glad OP has no regrets. My inbox is always open in the loud quiet moments. And I always tell my friends we can talk about it or we can talk about anything but that. You just let me know.
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2023-03-02 at 8:41 PM UTC
Just saw this. Sorry to hear that bro, my mom passed last year. It gets easier with time and soon you'll have good memories of times with her. I know it sounds like bullshit now and I understand. Again really sorry to hear of you sorrow.
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2023-03-02 at 8:54 PM UTC
He really appreciates your kind words Jerry. Better late than never, Old-Timer. 👍🤙🤟
