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2023-01-31 at 2:32 PM UTC
Originally posted by aldra I've noticed it seems fairly common for self-labeled 'incels' to obsess over girls that aren't available to them like instagram sloots or old family friends who've since moved away or gotten married. they don't even bother to try to meet new people, assuming that everyone else is just as unavailable to them
I think it’s probably a combination of confusing positive social interaction with romantic interest (eg family friend is socially required to be cordial), and feeling like the odds of turning a given acquaintance into a romantic partner are so low that the only reasonable strategy is to double down on relationships that have shown some kind of “promise”.
Or maybe just a lack of access to available women in general. I will say that meeting new people after college got a lot harder, I think that’s pretty common. Like how do you meet someone new in a socially acceptable way these days? Dating/hookup sites largely do run on looks so incels really are probably largely excluded there, there’s friends of friends but probably not a lot is those in incel world. Which leaves what? Work? Hello HR. Public space? Hello officer. I guess this is why the aristocracy used to throw balls and galas and shit. -
2023-01-31 at 2:37 PM UTCis this incel annonymous ?
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2023-01-31 at 2:39 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 2:39 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny I think it’s probably a combination of confusing positive social interaction with romantic interest (eg family friend is socially required to be cordial), and feeling like the odds of turning a given acquaintance into a romantic partner are so low that the only reasonable strategy is to double down on relationships that have shown some kind of “promise”.
Or maybe just a lack of access to available women in general. I will say that meeting new people after college got a lot harder, I think that’s pretty common. Like how do you meet someone new in a socially acceptable way these days? Dating/hookup sites largely do run on looks so incels really are probably largely excluded there, there’s friends of friends but probably not a lot is those in incel world. Which leaves what? Work? Hello HR. Public space? Hello officer. I guess this is why the aristocracy used to throw balls and galas and shit.
or they just have self respect and just want a new, unused, unoppened girl in her original packaging.
none of those moderately used rentals. -
2023-01-31 at 2:40 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 3:49 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 3:55 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny I think it’s probably a combination of confusing positive social interaction with romantic interest (eg family friend is socially required to be cordial), and feeling like the odds of turning a given acquaintance into a romantic partner are so low that the only reasonable strategy is to double down on relationships that have shown some kind of “promise”.
Or maybe just a lack of access to available women in general. I will say that meeting new people after college got a lot harder, I think that’s pretty common. Like how do you meet someone new in a socially acceptable way these days? Dating/hookup sites largely do run on looks so incels really are probably largely excluded there, there’s friends of friends but probably not a lot is those in incel world. Which leaves what? Work? Hello HR. Public space? Hello officer. I guess this is why the aristocracy used to throw balls and galas and shit.
how bout shopping malls for trash teenage girls who hang out with blacks or weird looking pretty criminals? -
2023-01-31 at 3:56 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 4 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 4:05 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 4:11 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 4:17 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 4:48 PM UTC
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2023-01-31 at 11:11 PM UTC
Originally posted by Lanny I think it’s probably a combination of confusing positive social interaction with romantic interest (eg family friend is socially required to be cordial), and feeling like the odds of turning a given acquaintance into a romantic partner are so low that the only reasonable strategy is to double down on relationships that have shown some kind of “promise”.
Or maybe just a lack of access to available women in general. I will say that meeting new people after college got a lot harder, I think that’s pretty common. Like how do you meet someone new in a socially acceptable way these days? Dating/hookup sites largely do run on looks so incels really are probably largely excluded there, there’s friends of friends but probably not a lot is those in incel world. Which leaves what? Work? Hello HR. Public space? Hello officer. I guess this is why the aristocracy used to throw balls and galas and shit.
Lol @ hello officer -
2023-01-31 at 11:44 PM UTC
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2023-02-02 at 1:37 PM UTC
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2023-02-02 at 1:45 PM UTC
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2023-02-02 at 1:53 PM UTC
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2023-02-02 at 1:59 PM UTCIncels are a bunch of whiny internet fucks, they expect a gal to beg them for a date. I see fat no job having ugly fucks with decent looking women, difference between them and incels is that they actually talk to women.