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2022-11-10 at 4:50 PM UTCYou know the incel from the shop who’s had a crush on me for a year and had a panic attack trying to ask me out? I told him to fuck off the other day because he wasn’t respecting boundaries, kept being inappropriate and creepy. Anyway I just went into the shop and he had his head down the whole time he said hello and if I needed anything else, think he’s just treating me like other customers but I feel really bad now ;_; People can seem more dumb/nasty over text than they are irl and I think that’s one of those cases. I’m pretty unforgiving when it comes to my boundaries and am sick of dumb guys. But yeah idk what else I could have done, I still think I did the right thing it’s just sad for him he doesn’t know how to treat girls.
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2022-11-10 at 4:59 PM UTCHey
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2022-11-10 at 5:01 PM UTCtell that tight sack to take a walk to poland and lower his tone
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2022-11-10 at 5:01 PM UTCIt’s sad I never acc knew him irl, I only met him once outside the shop to give him a Chuck Palahniuk book, we only talked over text message.
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2022-11-10 at 5:07 PM UTCThere's really no need to be mean to someone who likes you unless you've already asked them nicely to leave you alone.
A simple "I'm not interested sorry" will hurt his feelings enough without telling him to fuck off. -
2022-11-10 at 5:09 PM UTCIt wasn’t gonna work because he’s four years younger than me and I’m looking for something serious now.
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2022-11-10 at 5:09 PM UTC
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2022-11-10 at 5:09 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson There's really no need to be mean to someone who likes you unless you've already asked them nicely to leave you alone.
A simple "I'm not interested sorry" will hurt his feelings enough without telling him to fuck off.
Yeah or get a bunch more messages
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2022-11-10 at 5:10 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson There's really no need to be mean to someone who likes you unless you've already asked them nicely to leave you alone.
A simple "I'm not interested sorry" will hurt his feelings enough without telling him to fuck off.
Nah if I’m a bitch then he’ll come to resent me which is better for him than not getting over me. -
2022-11-10 at 5:10 PM UTC
Originally posted by I Live In Your Crawlspace Secretly4 Yeah or get a bunch more messages
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Well that's when it's ok to say "fuck off"...
From his point of view the fact you are texting him and gave him a book tells him there is some interest there (even if there isn't).
A pleasant "no thanks" first, then "fuck off creep" later. -
2022-11-10 at 5:11 PM UTCI didn’t block him to see if he did spam me anything indicating he’s going to retaliate with acid. He hasn’t messaged me.
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2022-11-10 at 5:12 PM UTCI gave him the book because we were trying to be friends.
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2022-11-10 at 5:12 PM UTC
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2022-11-10 at 5:13 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka Nah if I’m a bitch then he’ll come to resent me which is better for him than not getting over me.
Being an asshole to people is the easy (and satisfying way) out,...but as I've learned it will eventually bite you in the ass when in 20yrs and you are "mellowing out a bit" you've been a twat so much you don't know how not to be a twat anymore. -
2022-11-10 at 5:16 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka I gave him the book because we were trying to be friends.
Most men really don't want or believe you can "just be friends" with a woman...sure some will lie and say "uh well I've got women friends and I don't think of them that way".
...however as I've told many women who believed that..."Ask your friend to come over one night, wear something see through/sexy and start slowly rubbing his upper thigh and looking into his eyes when he's talk...see what happens to your..."friend's only" friend". -
2022-11-10 at 5:17 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson There's really no need to be mean to someone who likes you unless you've already asked them nicely to leave you alone.
A simple "I'm not interested sorry" will hurt his feelings enough without telling him to fuck off.
Tell that ro rhe polish and many times ukrianian teenagers but really polish being the worse how rhey treat me than just sometimes for giving them a compliment or on instagram especially how they are. -
2022-11-10 at 5:20 PM UTC
Originally posted by Jiggaboo_Johnson Most men really don't want or believe you can "just be friends" with a woman…sure some will lie and say "uh well I've got women friends and I don't think of them that way".
…however as I've told many women who believed that…"Ask your friend to come over one night, wear something see through/sexy and start slowly rubbing his upper thigh and looking into his eyes when he's talk…see what happens to your…"friend's only" friend".
*Smells finger*
Okay what's the moral of your story, that you want your mates woman friends to be in Stocktons I mean stockings? And wearing some really nice nickers -
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