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2022-09-21 at 8:55 PM UTC
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2022-09-21 at 8:57 PM UTC
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2022-09-21 at 8:58 PM UTCAnyway I don't have to try not to conform, I just am.
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2022-09-21 at 9:04 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka Idc if guys are uncomfortable with me being taller than them. I'm 5'6 and love being taller than people with heels. My ex gf was 5'10 so maybe that had something to do with it, I wanted to be around the same height when we went for walks.
I guess wanting to be the same height has something to do with feeling less of a person when you're smaller than someone. Why do you feel less of a person when you feel physically smaller than someone. I can understand feeling small even if you are the tallest person in the world. But if it has to do with being of smaller physique that says something about you, first instinct is to say you feel less capable of preventing people to do whatever they want with you. But i am not sure, if it is that though here is a gift that nature got you, you're a girl. Generally speaking, guys do conflict resolution with violence, girls do conflict resolution by having an army. You got guy friends you got girl friends that got guy friends. Put all your friends together and bingo bango bongo. You have an army if need be. -
2022-09-21 at 9:07 PM UTC
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2022-09-21 at 9:12 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sophie I guess wanting to be the same height has something to do with feeling less of a person when you're smaller than someone. Why do you feel less of a person when you feel physically smaller than someone. I can understand feeling small even if you are the tallest person in the world. But if it has to do with being of smaller physique that says something about you, first instinct is to say you feel less capable of preventing people to do whatever they want with you. But i am not sure, if it is that though here is a gift that nature got you, you're a girl. Generally speaking, guys do conflict resolution with violence, girls do conflict resolution by having an army. You got guy friends you got girl friends that got guy friends. Put all your friends together and bingo bango bongo. You have an army if need be.
I think it's just I look down on small people myself, especially over in England they're all midgets. I think they have bad genes or were malnourished as a children. I am uncomfortable around guys with steroid bodies, instantly dislike them and I feel violent. I don't feel scared though and don't have an army. -
2022-09-21 at 9:21 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka I think it's just I look down on small people myself, especially over in England they're all midgets. I think they have bad genes or were malnourished as a children. I am uncomfortable around guys with steroid bodies, instantly dislike them and I feel violent. I don't feel scared though and don't have an army.
So you're projecting? Hey i am uncomfortable around men or women with steroid bodies, but i look like the type that stabs people over stupid shit so people generally leave me alone. Also, no army means you need to resort to physical violence. The fact you feel violent indicates a fight or flight response. Which indicates you perceive big guys as a threat, this happens at an unconscious level but correlates with my initial assessment at least as it pertains to big guys. Would you say you're always on guard, even if you're just doing something normal at a normal place with normal people? -
2022-09-21 at 9:24 PM UTCAlso the fact you're 5,6 and consider English people midgets is amusing to me. Just friendly competition type thing with my neighbors across the channel, lel.
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2022-09-21 at 9:29 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sophie So you're projecting? Hey i am uncomfortable around men or women with steroid bodies, but i look like the type that stabs people over stupid shit so people generally leave me alone. Also, no army means you need to resort to physical violence. The fact you feel violent indicates a fight or flight response. Which indicates you perceive big guys as a threat, this happens at an unconscious level but correlates with my initial assessment at least as it pertains to big guys. Would you say you're always on guard, even if you're just doing something normal at a normal place with normal people?
Idk how I’m projecting Ik I’m not short. I do see bigger guys as a threat but I like the thrill. -
2022-09-21 at 9:40 PM UTCMidgits, dwarves, goblins, trolls...
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2022-09-21 at 9:43 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka I do see bigger guys as a threat but I like the thrill.
Sounds like a good time to be honest. Also, i suppose the threat and thrill part is kind of normal and if not normal then common enough. What i really wanna know is if you are hyper-vigilant, always on guard even when there may objectively be no reason to be on guard. I'll be honest with you and tell you i am more aware of potential threats than 'normal' people. It's very useful, but i am a guy so i need to violence my way out of a sticky situation if i find myself in one, so it's good to have options, have the right tool at the ready and be prepared. Also having multiple plans for dealing with aggressive people is useful.
You should get an army though, even though that may be out of character for you. -
2022-09-21 at 9:49 PM UTC
Originally posted by Sophie Sounds like a good time to be honest. Also, i suppose the threat and thrill part is kind of normal and if not normal then common enough. What i really wanna know is if you are hyper-vigilant, always on guard even when there may objectively be no reason to be on guard. I'll be honest with you and tell you i am more aware of potential threats than 'normal' people. It's very useful, but i am a guy so i need to violence my way out of a sticky situation if i find myself in one, so it's good to have options, have the right tool at the ready and be prepared. Also having multiple plans for dealing with aggressive people is useful.
You should get an army though, even though that may be out of character for you.
I can’t say I’ve ever felt safe around a guy and maybe I’m never relaxed but I’m not scared of them, I like getting into fights and wish I had an excuse to use my knife. -
2022-09-21 at 9:49 PM UTC
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2022-09-21 at 9:55 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka I can’t say I’ve ever felt safe around a guy and maybe I’m never relaxed but I’m not scared of them, I like getting into fights and wish I had an excuse to use my knife.
You don't need an excuse but i'm not about encouraging bad behavior. Also you sound like my gf, she is pretty aggressive and impulsive to her detriment. She has ADHD though, so you know. It is what it is. You have adopted the guy way of conflict resolution, and it sounds to me like you're hyper-vigilant. You said you had autism, do you have any anxiety or social disorders as well barring bipolar, borderline and ASPD? -
2022-09-21 at 9:58 PM UTC
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2022-09-21 at 10:04 PM UTCPygmies..The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
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2022-09-21 at 10:05 PM UTC
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2022-09-21 at 10:06 PM UTCDouble amputees? C'mon, folks. There's lots of people we can look down upon.
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2022-09-21 at 10:07 PM UTC
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2022-09-21 at 10:09 PM UTCNever met a tall hunchback granny, so I guess hunchbacked grannies would qualify.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire!
