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2022-04-30 at 4:38 AM UTCKafka r u Irish Native or non Celtic-Irish Nationalist
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2022-04-30 at 2:26 PM UTC*checks weather*
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2022-04-30 at 3:36 PM UTC*sounds whip*
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2022-05-01 at 3:17 PM UTCThese is an abundance of hurt feelings here..lots of misplaced anger and victim energy...
That’s what I’m sensing.....many hearts are in turmoil and their heart wants to file a grievance...
That’s the energy... Chile......❤️ -
2022-05-01 at 3:32 PM UTCThe life of an Empath.. the gift and the curse...❤️
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2022-05-01 at 3:34 PM UTCBut I wouldn’t want any other life ..God knows what he’s doing ❤️
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2022-05-01 at 3:34 PM UTCRoflllllllll
Do you alway give yourself exorbitant unfounded titles? Or is this something your trying new? -
2022-05-01 at 7:20 PM UTCHe messaged me again, the man from November who sent me 40 voicemails. Idk if I should meet him, like yeah he's out of his mind and doesn't respect boundaries, but I'm curious what it would be like to meet him in a coffee shop after all that, and it would be a safe meeting. I did like some things about him.
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2022-05-01 at 7:26 PM UTCHe's a software engineer and told me his workplace before but I forgot it. I think at the very least I could get more information from him to later hurt him with if it does turn sour. He went too far.
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2022-05-01 at 7:29 PM UTC
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2022-05-01 at 7:36 PM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ What did he do? The excessive voicemails? Whats his deal?
This man off the internet, we went for a walk irl. He mostly talked about himself, rambled, I got a vibe from him that he was cold or on the spectrum. In his online message he initially tried to buy me, I said I wasn't about that but it makes me think he could be violent. He said my personality was the type he was looking for, which struck me because I didn't show any, I was quiet.
I was meant to meet him in a hotel a few days later but stood him up because I needed sleep. Then he sent me 40 voicemails, ig I was lucky finding out what he was really like that way. Still messaging me months later trying to meet up saying he forgives me. It's a bit obsessive, I've ignored all his messages and blocked his number twice in Whatsapp and just on my phone.
I'm thinking about meeting him in a safe place just to see what it's like, apart from the obsessive stuff I think we could be a good match, if he is on the spectrum, and he seemed intelligent. I will try to gather more info about him just in case, and I'll leave his contact details with someone just in case he does kill me.The following users say it would be alright if the author of this post didn't die in a fire! -
2022-05-01 at 7:42 PM UTCIt's too early to say since I only met him once but he could be psycho.
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2022-05-01 at 8:31 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka It's too early to say since I only met him once but he could be psycho.
True but truly so could anyone. Plenty of murderers and psychos just hiding in plain sight. It's kind of interesting to think about, just the fact that like every time you go out to eat there's probably someone else there with a BOAT LOAD of toddler porn, or when you go to a concert, there are most certainly multiple convicted rapists just scattered about. -
2022-05-01 at 8:48 PM UTC
Originally posted by mmQ True but truly so could anyone. Plenty of murderers and psychos just hiding in plain sight. It's kind of interesting to think about, just the fact that like every time you go out to eat there's probably someone else there with a BOAT LOAD of toddler porn, or when you go to a concert, there are most certainly multiple convicted rapists just scattered about.
Sometimes I think that's why people don't rebel, when they're doing mundane things like commuting to work on the train. They can look normal but really be anyone, unreadable. -
2022-05-01 at 8:49 PM UTCIdk why I remember people I see on trains from years ago, their faces clearly.
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2022-05-01 at 9:49 PM UTCPancake and cupcakes taste nice together, maybe they’re the same.
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2022-05-01 at 10:11 PM UTCA donut with a milk chocolate sugar glaze and fruity Pebble dust
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2022-05-01 at 11:24 PM UTC
Originally posted by Kafka I'm thinking about meeting him in a safe place just to see what it's like, apart from the obsessive stuff I think we could be a good match, if he is on the spectrum, and he seemed intelligent. I will try to gather more info about him just in case, and I'll leave his contact details with someone just in case he does kill me.
You should bring a duffle bag that's about your size to the date and save him some trouble. -
2022-05-01 at 11:40 PM UTC40 voicemails is rather insane, that's a huge red flag.
Those levels of butthurt can indicate extremely low self esteem or an extremely high level of obsessiveness, a fanatical nature.
Even if you got in his good graces, and everything in your relationship with him was all sunshine and rainbows for awhile, those are the kind of people that when shit goes wrong, shit goes really wrong.
Like maybe you thought everything was fine but he was secretly collecting perceived slights, growing angrier and angrier, until a straw finally breaks the camel's back.
*kafka comes home late*
Normal secure person: "So, where've you been? Oh really? Ok."
Obsessive, posessive psycho: "I KNOW YOU'VE BEEN CHEATING ON ME WHORE. IF I CAN't HAVE YOU NO ONE WILL" *pulls huge knife*
I dunno.
You'll have to figure it out.
Be careful though, lol.
Someone send me 40 voicemails? That's it, I'm done. Nope. -
2022-05-01 at 11:45 PM UTC
Originally posted by smokemon 40 voicemails is rather insane, that's a huge red flag.
Those levels of butthurt can indicate extremely low self esteem or an extremely high level of obsessiveness, a fanatical nature.
Even if you got in his good graces, and everything in your relationship with him was all sunshine and rainbows for awhile, those are the kind of people that when shit goes wrong, shit goes really wrong.
Like maybe you thought everything was fine but he was secretly collecting perceived slights, growing angrier and angrier, until a straw finally breaks the camel's back.
*kafka comes home late*
Normal secure person: "So, where've you been? Oh really? Ok."
Obsessive, posessive psycho: "I KNOW YOU'VE BEEN CHEATING ON ME WHORE. IF I CAN't HAVE YOU NO ONE WILL" *pulls huge knife*
I dunno.
You'll have to figure it out.
Be careful though, lol.
Someone send me 40 voicemails? That's it, I'm done. Nope.
I’m hoping he’s just incel and will act more normal if I slept with him, some guys are like that. I’m not walking on eggshells or anything around him, I think he does have motive to hurt me so there’s that but I think it’s a 50/50 chance and ig want to give him a second chance to find out, because if he doesn’t intend to hurt me then I think we’re a good match.
