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My ex called the police because my family message her

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    filtration African Astronaut
    Part of my bail conditions I can't contact her or her family, which I haven't yet she calls the police on me because my family message her to see pictures of my kid LOL... This bitch is getting the truth told about her.

    I asked the police offer what's the charges... He goes "common assault and errrrrrr... I think that's it" SKETCHY.
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    filtration African Astronaut
    Unlike her, I don't tell the police what she's done to me, like whenever I didn't wsnt sex, she'd say I didn't love her and that I was cheating, so I had to have sex to prove I love her and didn't cheat, or when she'd point knives at me and says she hates me, or when she'd belittle me, call me fat, small dick, lazy etc. Or when I wouldn't message back 2 seconds after she'd text, she'd start accusing me of cheating and shit lol

    Unlike her, I protect the people I love.

    No more. I'm gonna fuck other girls now. I am never dealing with this bitch again... Family courts to see my kid, and I'm moving on.
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    Aleister Crowley African Astronaut
    Mediation > court > access.

    If you're unwilling to do what is needed to be done to see your kid, don't moan about why you can't.
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    filtration African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Aleister Crowley Mediation > court > access.

    If you're unwilling to do what is needed to be done to see your kid, don't moan about why you can't.

    If/when it goes to court, I'll probably get a restraining order against me, so I don't know about the mediation... but to go to court it requires a mediation lol how does that work.
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    Aleister Crowley African Astronaut
    Originally posted by filtration If/when it goes to court, I'll probably get a restraining order against me, so I don't know about the mediation… but to go to court it requires a mediation lol how does that work.

    You won't step in court without mediation, the courts always request it be attempted, sometimes even twice.
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    Aleister Crowley African Astronaut
    If you're unemployed you will get it for free
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    Aleister Crowley African Astronaut
    If you're unemployed you will get it for free.

    Talklistenchange.org.uk

    I used these albeit I had to pay but the process was done within 2 months cause she didn't want to do mediation.
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    filtration African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Aleister Crowley You won't step in court without mediation, the courts always request it be attempted, sometimes even twice.

    But how if I have a restraining order? I can't contact her so how could I mediate? lol
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    Aleister Crowley African Astronaut
    Originally posted by filtration But how if I have a restraining order? I can't contact her so how could I mediate? lol

    Well this plays into your hand then, my ex had one on me albeit there was no reason for it. She got the restraining order thinking in court it would make me look bad which it did not.


    All the courts give a shit about is that you are not a threat to the child. I know of guys who have beat the living day lights out their birds and been jail/ all sorts and gone to court/ got access.

    I know all this cause I was in your position and someone told me to do what I am telling you to do now.
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    filtration African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Aleister Crowley Well this plays into your hand then, my ex had one on me albeit there was no reason for it. She got the restraining order thinking in court it would make me look bad which it did not.


    All the courts give a shit about is that you are not a threat to the child. I know of guys who have beat the living day lights out their birds and been jail/ all sorts and gone to court/ got access.

    I know all this cause I was in your position and someone told me to do what I am telling you to do now.

    I've never actually beat her up though, just self defence, but sadly cause I've already been charged and pleased guilty to assaulting her in the past they will be like well he's done it before etc... bullshit man... i really hope in the end I get to see my kid.
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    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Originally posted by filtration If/when it goes to court, I'll probably get a restraining order against me, so I don't know about the mediation… but to go to court it requires a mediation lol how does that work.

    Restraihijg order doesnt apply to the custody order. Somwtimes they want all court proceedings to he done before the family court ones. You have a supervisor for visits if that's ordered and it just can't be her. Since your family is supportive of you I'm sure they will be approved for access and allow you to see them.

    I'm going to apply for access with my daughter soon but need my taxes done beforehand
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    filtration African Astronaut
    Originally posted by Sudo Restraihijg order doesnt apply to the custody order. Somwtimes they want all court proceedings to he done before the family court ones. You have a supervisor for visits if that's ordered and it just can't be her. Since your family is supportive of you I'm sure they will be approved for access and allow you to see them.

    I'm going to apply for access with my daughter soon but need my taxes done beforehand

    I hope so... It breaks my heart that I've only got videos on my phone of his laugh :(
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  13. #13
    Sudo Black Hole [my hereto riemannian peach]
    Dam mang those feels. It will get better, chin up m8.
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    *slowly exits single fathers club*
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    Aleister Crowley African Astronaut
    Originally posted by vindicktive vinny *slowly exits single fathers club*





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    aldra JIDF Controlled Opposition
    Originally posted by filtration Unlike her, I don't tell the police what she's done to me, like whenever I didn't wsnt sex, she'd say I didn't love her and that I was cheating, so I had to have sex to prove I love her and didn't cheat, or when she'd point knives at me and says she hates me, or when she'd belittle me, call me fat, small dick, lazy etc. Or when I wouldn't message back 2 seconds after she'd text, she'd start accusing me of cheating and shit lol

    Unlike her, I protect the people I love.

    No more. I'm gonna fuck other girls now. I am never dealing with this bitch again… Family courts to see my kid, and I'm moving on.

    why would you let this kind of behaviour slide
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    filtration African Astronaut
    Originally posted by aldra why would you let this kind of behaviour slide

    Because I still love her. And I don't think I'd ever stop loving her. But doesn't mean I wanna get back with her or shit, and I couldn't see my childs mum get in trouble.
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    Originally posted by aldra why would you let this kind of behaviour slide

    what would you have done.
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    Take a shit on their door step

    and moosh it in with your boot really good

    and then take your boot and wipe the shit off on the door knob and then run really fast leaving a trail of one boot-shit-print.

    It won't solve anything or make you feel better about it but its funny thinking about it.

    You're supposed to experience pain now and then. emotional pain and physical from time to time or you will never be blessed knowing the smallest things are sometimes the best times.
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    mmQ Lisa Turtle
    Originally posted by vindicktive vinny what would you have done.

    Burned her alive in oven to teach her.
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