Maybe im just over thinking about this because I'm kinda krunk, but I just got home a lil while ago and went on a walk and I saw this girls in the neighborhoods bangle cat who i used to be friends with, and he wears a vest with a blue light so she can let him out of the her place and run around the neighborhood without someone jacking him. And i was like hey was up huxley, and we chatted for awhile.
I thought about taking her cat back up to her place since it was a few blocks away and being like hey whats up (i'm not sexually interested in her or anything like that anymore, just do it to say whats up)
But I honestly thought I'd get an attitude like "well well, look what cat dragged in..." with her arms crossed pointing her finger at me expecting to be standing there in a neck brace with my arm in a sling and be like "im a loser...." but im not a yes dear kind of guy. So I just carried her cat over to her place and through her cat on top of the roof.
But I've been seeing the nurse for awhile and I don't see her all the time, we will drink and have sex and I will spend the night at her place and I when I get up in the morning and get dressed to leave she will be kind of bitchy, like its not anything that I can pinpoint or point out, but she will have a really shitty attitude.
She's only been to my place a few times and the last time (I don't sleep a lot I stay up late , wake up all through out the night and get up early) and decided to get on my laptop in the next room as to not wake her and so I could giggle at my shit post / shit on the internet ect.. and some im tee heeing and drinking coffee petting my cat and I decide to go get a morning brew because I havent been drinking as often and its my day off.
And I come back and all the lights are on in my place and i walk in my room and get on my bed and she's sitting in front of my mirror in my room putting on makeup not saying anything and im just on my laptop sippin and like ten minutes later she blurts out "do you have any fetishes?!" and im like "what??!" and she says is the reason why you went to the other room is because you do things on the computer that you don't want me to know about because you have a fetish?"
It was kind of weird thing to ask considerding I'm not ashamed of anything sexual im into. It was just a little irritating because I will just hit her up out of nowhere just because I was thinking about her and will be like "hey whats up doll!?" just being light hearted and checkin her oil to make sure she's doing alright and I won't hear back from her for several days, and I'm never tripping about it asking if she has fetishes lol
like wtf? I honestly would like to have a gf / wife one day again, but I'm not a yes dear kind of guy because thats not the way to be, but at the same time I would like someone im attracted to to be chill with me. I don't have a lot of guy friends IRL, pretty much none,I occasionally will chat it up / jam out with a neighbor or two or talk to guys at my neighborhood bar occasionally that are always there. But when it all comes down to it I just live with my cat and if I happen to have someone to spend my days with its always a woman. But the whole walter mitty thing is total bs.
I have a neighbor that is a nice guy, but his wife is a total cunt, its like that saving silverman but real. Like I will see him downtown and he goes out and drinks by himself which is cool, but he's never talking to anyone, he's just constantly smiling kinda like he's got raging clue lol.. his wife is afraid of any guy that isn't him, like every guy is threatening and she's even afraid of her own shadow. Like he will go jogging and she will go jogging with some girl.
I saw him petting pee wee the cat the other day and i was like lol dude thats pee wee the cat lol and we petted the cat for a lil.
Then like a week later I see his wife she's petting pee wee the cat with her friend and I was like hey how's pee wee, and she looked at me really dirty and said "his names not pee wee" and I was like actually it is considering I named him over a year ago and she stormed off.
A couple months ago I went into a dyke bar on accident with this girl and he was there and I was like hey whats up man, wheres your girl bud? and he was like oh she doesn't like downtown or drinking but she's going to pick me up in a bit so we can watch "stranger things" and I was like dude that show sucks, and he was just smiling and was like "lol happy wife happy life" and he ordered my friend and I a drink which was really nice of him. But I just get it, maybe I'm just not meant to have a wife ever, but frankly that dude even though is a really nice and "wholesome" guy seems kind of like a pussy.
This is the kind of stuff that made me run away from my daughters mom, she would just always say "seriously doug?!, seriously?!!!" and her voice would get higher pitched with every seriously and on top of it all she isn't even someone I find attractive anymore.
Anyone here ever gone through this before or something like it? or seen it?
Sometimes women really plan on bagging a milton i guess
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The best way to avoid problems with women is to not be invested into the idea of being in a relationship. There are a lot of things to do in life, if you're an actually interesting individual who can be satisfied with their own life rather than what a woman can bring to it, you won't be beholden to any one of them, and you'll also find another individual who is self fulfilled and happy... And then both of you can have a healthy relationship.
People who have woman trouble are generally either losers or people who got into the relationship when they were a loser, and have this fucking leech clinging to them and sapping their life energy. Cut them out, go be a fucking beast, and then find a woman who actually deserves you, and whom you deserve.
Originally posted by Captain Falcon
The best way to avoid problems with women is to not be invested into the idea of being in a relationship. There are a lot of things to do in life, if you're an actually interesting individual who can be satisfied with their own life rather than what a woman can bring to it, you won't be beholden to any one of them, and you'll also find another individual who is self fulfilled and happy… And then both of you can have a healthy relationship.
People who have woman trouble are generally either losers or people who got into the relationship when they were a loser, and have this fucking leech clinging to them and sapping their life energy. Cut them out, go be a fucking beast, and then find a woman who actually deserves you, and whom you deserve.
So you think if you were married you shouldn't be invested in that relationship? thats kind of weird.. anyways..
But yeah I totally get there are tons of different things to do in life, I learned that along time ago from my attorney. But being a guy thats into girls and not having a lot of guys friends I still would like companionship.. lol im only human. since I left my ex gf about two years ago, i've seen plenty of girls and could of had several be my gf, but trust me I only invested enough until I saw certain traits come out that didn't make seeing them worth while, and that quite the change for me considering since I've been 16 I've always had a gf except for the last couple years.
But I digress, I guess according to you most murican men are losers lol considering the divorce rate..
My parents have been together for about 25 years and they definitely have had a lot of problems but I wouldn't consider my parents losers at all, most of my friends growing up / most people I know have parents are that not together anymore.. don't think that exactly equates to people being leaches / losers..
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
So you think if you were married you shouldn't be invested in that relationship? thats kind of weird.. anyways..
But yeah I totally get there are tons of different things to do in life, I learned that along time ago from my attorney. But being a guy thats into girls and not having a lot of guys friends I still would like companionship.. lol im only human. since I left my ex gf about two years ago, i've seen plenty of girls and could of had several be my gf, but trust me I only invested enough until I saw certain traits come out that didn't make seeing them worth while, and that quite the change for me considering since I've been 16 I've always had a gf except for the last couple years.
But I digress, I guess according to you most murican men are losers lol considering the divorce rate..
My parents have been together for about 25 years and they definitely have had a lot of problems but I wouldn't consider my parents losers at all, most of my friends growing up / most people I know have parents are that not together anymore.. don't think that exactly equates to people being leaches / losers..
No, you should not be invested in the idea of being in that relationship. Being emotionally invested is fine. The problem is when the emotional investment in the relationship is cantilevered upon their investment into the idea of being in the relationship. People want to get into relationships because they are a band aid solution to dealing with their personal defects, deficiencies and insecurities.
Are you ugly? Fat? Boring empty husk of a man? Lower your standards and get a 3/10 girlfriend who has her own share of problems, and she will bang you to make you feel attractive, she'll tell you she loves you, she'll listen to your stupid bullshit and make you feel like your problems, aren't your problems any more... Because you do the same for her. This is why relationships go bad; people get tired of pretending and demand the other person raise themselves a little bit, so they don't have to pull their standards down quite so much. They're not in love, they're in mutual tolerance.
I don't believe in the common western idea of "true love", with unconditional, inexhaustible affection and limitless patience. That is something invented by jedis to sell Valentine's Day cards.
What is actually real and possible is a spirit of mutual respect between two people, and the desire to be better for your sake, and for theirs. Happy relationships happen when two people who are self fulfilled, happy and driven feel nourished by each other's company. They don't rely on each other for their happiness; they simply share it.
Christ you are so fucking boring. What difference does it make what the god damn cat was wearing, AND the reason why it was wearing that?? In fact it looks like that whole first part of the story had nothing to do with the rest of it, other than the fact that it's ALSO an event that happened during your lifetime.
Are you fucking 5 years old? Can you not sort through your own internal dialogue well enough to separate inane bullshit from the actual point that you're trying to communicate?
That whole wall of verbal diarrhea could have been compressed to maybe one paragraph and possibly could have been interesting enough to even read. MAYBE.
My god you're just a username on a screen and I fucking hate you. How can anyone in real life stand to be around you for more than 10 seconds.
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Originally posted by Fox Paws
Christ you are so fucking boring. What difference does it make what the god damn cat was wearing, AND the reason why it was wearing that?? In fact it looks like that whole first part of the story had nothing to do with the rest of it, other than the fact that it's ALSO an event that happened during your lifetime.
Are you fucking 5 years old? Can you not sort through your own internal dialogue well enough to separate inane bullshit from the actual point that you're trying to communicate?
That whole wall of verbal diarrhea could have been compressed to maybe one paragraph and possibly could have been interesting enough to even read. MAYBE.
My god you're just a username on a screen and I fucking hate you. How can anyone in real life stand to be around you for more than 10 seconds.
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Originally posted by Fox Paws
Christ you are so fucking boring. What difference does it make what the god damn cat was wearing, AND the reason why it was wearing that?? In fact it looks like that whole first part of the story had nothing to do with the rest of it, other than the fact that it's ALSO an event that happened during your lifetime.
Are you fucking 5 years old? Can you not sort through your own internal dialogue well enough to separate inane bullshit from the actual point that you're trying to communicate?
That whole wall of verbal diarrhea could have been compressed to maybe one paragraph and possibly could have been interesting enough to even read. MAYBE.
My god you're just a username on a screen and I fucking hate you. How can anyone in real life stand to be around you for more than 10 seconds.
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The only things that have power in your life are the things you allow to have power. In the case of your nice neighbor I wouldn't call him a pussy per say but his wife knows she has the upperhand somehow and I know relationships shouldn't be a power struggle but in his case it is. His wife pushes him around because he allows it.
The nurse seems to be testy and feeling you out to see if she can do the same exact thing to you. I'm not with my girl anymore but she tried the same thing a time or two one time I just flat out ignored her for days and the second time I squeeled to a stop and literally pushed her out of my truck on a cold winter night around 10 pm 10+ miles from town/civilization. Needless to say she didn't pull that shit again. I'm a bad example of a decent human being because my line of business requires me to be heartless to a degree so probably don't do what I do.
TL;DR : Sounds like the nurse is testing the waters to see if she can cuck you like your neighbor already is; Don't allow it.
Originally posted by RestStop
The only things that have power in your life are the things you allow to have power. In the case of your nice neighbor I wouldn't call him a pussy per say but his wife knows she has the upperhand somehow and I know relationships shouldn't be a power struggle but in his case it is. His wife pushes him around because he allows it.
The nurse seems to be testy and feeling you out to see if she can do the same exact thing to you. I'm not with my girl anymore but she tried the same thing a time or two one time I just flat out ignored her for days and the second time I squeeled to a stop and literally pushed her out of my truck on a cold winter night around 10 pm 10+ miles from town/civilization. Needless to say she didn't pull that shit again. I'm a bad example of a decent human being because my line of business requires me to be heartless to a degree so probably don't do what I do.
TL;DR : Sounds like the nurse is testing the waters to see if she can cuck you like your neighbor already is; Don't allow it.
yeah im not allowing it, when i first met the nurse, she was shit faced and told me it would be a real panty dropper if I told her I was a feminist. And I refused to say it.. because I highly doubted she invited me at 3 in the morning to not get fucked. She even apologized to me lol and since hasn't said anything like that me.
The only weird thing is her weird attitude, but regardless I have things I need to do even if its just like doing laundry or feeding my cat or whatever. I don't know if I look that sex starved or that much of a pushover but a couple times she asked me to comeover and I was just tired/ drunk and didn't want to drive and she made it a point to tell me that she's wanting to have sex as if I wasn't already aware..
I've met her friends before and they are lesbos and I bet she eats up a lot of their bs / they don't like me. oh well..
Originally posted by Bill Krozby
we keep a lot of distance.
i was given a fleshlight by the lady that works at the porn shop down the store, she brought over a nazi porn dvd the first time i met her and the second time i ever hungout with her she bought me a fleshlight, and i told her i didnt want it and she was like "i have tons of them in the back of my car, just keep it" i never used it but just on my cat
funny thing was my ex gf (while she was my ex gf) went through my phone and saw text message of me talking to her and made a fit "i hope she's worth it" what a dumbass lol
but im digressing.. heres the nazi porn flashlight cat mane
Originally posted by Captain Falcon
No, you should not be invested in the idea of being in that relationship. Being emotionally invested is fine. The problem is when the emotional investment in the relationship is cantilevered upon their investment into the idea of being in the relationship. People want to get into relationships because they are a band aid solution to dealing with their personal defects, deficiencies and insecurities.
Are you ugly? Fat? Boring empty husk of a man? Lower your standards and get a 3/10 girlfriend who has her own share of problems, and she will bang you to make you feel attractive, she'll tell you she loves you, she'll listen to your stupid bullshit and make you feel like your problems, aren't your problems any more… Because you do the same for her. This is why relationships go bad; people get tired of pretending and demand the other person raise themselves a little bit, so they don't have to pull their standards down quite so much. They're not in love, they're in mutual tolerance.
I don't believe in the common western idea of "true love", with unconditional, inexhaustible affection and limitless patience. That is something invented by jedis to sell Valentine's Day cards.
What is actually real and possible is a spirit of mutual respect between two people, and the desire to be better for your sake, and for theirs. Happy relationships happen when two people who are self fulfilled, happy and driven feel nourished by each other's company. They don't rely on each other for their happiness; they simply share it.
ITT: captain cornhole has a lot of problems with girls lol
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