According to gay guys, I'm attractive enough to fuck. If I do this, I have to treat it like a real experiment. Like, not just passively decide to be nice.
This will not end well. The overwhelming majority of humanity needs to be treated like the animals they are. If you treat them nicely, they will not reciprocate, they will take advantage, the leniency will encourage them to test limits and abuse you. This applies to the female gender in particular.
There is but one upright man in a thousand, and it will (almost) never be a woman.